It seems like such a miracle that the two of you met. No color lines…all you were looking for was love and when it came into your life you were not about to push it away. The two of you became inseparable. Wherever you were, there he was right alongside you and the play and fun you had together was off the charts. It didn’t seem like it could get any better. Love developed quickly. You couldn’t believe it yourself.
As much as you love your partner and know that there is a lot to build on in your relationship, you wonder why the weekend comes and goes and along with it is a side of silence frustration as you prepare yourself for another week recovering from the argument you just had.
Now its over a year later and you’re noticing that although the love is still there, there are some moments where you wonder why you keep having the same conflicts over and over. You don’t feel as understood and neither does he and you say to yourself if only he really understood this about what I really went through. Something just isn’t going over well and you wish you had better understanding of each other.
You wonder how that could enhance the relationship between you and help you better handle the differences between you. The cultural differences seem to be getting the best of you and you’re starting to avoid familiar topics that create tension between you and all you feel is distance. Not good. And you cant bear to think of breaking up and starting over without him.