The alarm on your phone goes off and you hit snooze. Fifteen more minutes to get ready.
The hardest thing you do is getting out of bed on a Monday morning.
It’s not your work performance you’re worried about. You want to be doing a good job, enjoy the work, for it to be fulfilling. Its the challenge of the work relationships and all those crazy expectations and unreasonable deadlines that’s driving you nuts.
And the boss who seems nit picky, who’s constantly looking over your shoulder and the co-workers more interested in getting promoted than doing their job leaves you feeling uninspired and wondering what in the world you should do with your life.
And so, you you find yourself sitting in your car for just for a moment with a sense of relief when the day is done, but by the time you’re home a deep heaviness rolls over your body and all you want to do is lie down and sleep the rest of the day away, until you realize you have to think about the next.
You dare to think of work or anything else.
You’re in for the night or out trying to forget about the day or week ahead. These days you find it harder and harder to forget. It just isn’t working.
You keep wondering if you’re in the right profession while feeling overtaken with thoughts about leaving a company where you feel so out of sync with who you really are and what you want to be doing with your life.
You thought by now you’d be settled in a position you would be thriving in, feeling more accomplished and emotionally available to enjoy the benefits in your life. Career and life would have taken off.
I can help you get out of the black hole onto a course that suits you and into a life you feel more alive and excited about.
Want to read more…
You’ve worked hard to get to where you are. It hasn’t been easy. Sometimes you ask yourself how you made it and at others you know that it was by persevering through things that really didn’t make much sense. Cultural, race, and and the mere fact of being a woman in today’s world hasn’t been easy or made the most sense to navigate.
Being a hard working woman and having to always persevere through life and work issues keep coming up for you and almost made you faint.
You really struggle to find the support, clarity, and love you need to really thrive. The city is so transient and you’re just plain tired. You just couldn’t give up although there were many compromises and times you just had to suck it up and keep going when you just wanted to scream or chew someone out.
But you just didn’t want to be seen as the angry black woman or “unprofessional when you struggled not to leak with anger or frustration or for that matter tears that signified your overwhelming frustration and pain. How did you manage it?
Nowadays, you know that all that clawing and sitting on your hands sits with you as the day is long and you push it away like it was a bad date that you just couldn’t stomach anymore. You just had to get up and leave. But you find yourself unable to escape the fact that while you were struggling so hard to build your career and survive day to day, you felt so faint that there were plenty of times that you could have just threw in the towel and given up.
And looking back, you know building your career cost you a lot. You wonder if it even cost you love and a family. Sacrifice and tired are too words that often come to mind. It wasn’t all that you needed, but it had to come first for mere survivals sake. And no you struggle to feel like you can get the other parts of your life in order and really enjoy it.
You want to feel loved and cared for. You want to know how to play the dating game and win the prize of being loved and finally getting your needs met in love. You want to feel more supported and cared for and refrain from being superwoman and learn how to let someone take care of you.
And you want to know how to break the patters in love that keep you from finding real love in the city and finally feel more alive and excited on the inside about having a partner and love that celebrates you and all of your accomplishments and values your needs. You don’t have to do it all. There’s a chance that there’s something left just for you.
You want to be able to love and attract the kind of love that will be reciprocating and nourishing. I can help. Give me a call today and lets get you the support you need to really talk about your life and be heard. Its your time.
I know what it’s like to find real love that celebrates and nourishes you. It’s not too late. Let’s begin. Click on the button below and schedule an appointment.